Do you like high heels?

09.06.2025 12:48

Do you like high heels?

I was a cocktail waitress in my twenties and I had to wear 3-in heels for 8 hour shifts and that was not easy at all, but I did make very good tips!

Well of course I do! They make me feel powerful and sexy but at the same time they can be very painful over long periods.

These days I only wear 2-in heels at the most and not very long.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?